Could you use some tips? See the lovely Grace Urbanski video below, there are more where that came from!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P42vycn7R0Y
Catholic Parenting “Four Reasons to be Affectionate”
Ken Yasinski – Catholic Minute
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eWAfhBT9bUk&list=PLPtJlDO3CxNXO3muRyMlV70-jBsKWXUVm